Hmm . . . I have a theory regarding what he means.
Despite rumors to the contrary, men and women think differently. They approach life differently. Often women can not understand why or how men act and think they way they do and visa versa.
So, what he is saying is, he likes the ideas men have about how to live life but isn't attracted to them physically.
How did I do?
It's a common dilemma, really. The whole "can't live with them; can't live without them" syndrome.
To an extent, yes. That's the case. But of course, there are also imaginary scenarios where hypothetical beings are attractive, but not necessarily on a physical/sexual level. Almost like a pseudosexual/metasexual appeal of some sort. IDK, it's really strange. I have a couple of really good friends that I always joke with that if we never find wives, we'll go off to whatever state allows gay marriage, and get hitched there. You can't quite call it a "Bromance" or anything like that; I can't quite put my finger on it. This is confusing (but in a good way, I guess ).