Everything in the bible is open to interpretation. Your church interprets something one way, his church interprets it another way, and her church interprets it differently still. Because of this, very few groups see eye to eye on this. I think it's really a matter of personal opinion amongst higher-ups in both church and government. As far as I can see, none of them have addressed this issue from a relevant perspective. In MY personal opinion, this is a simple human rights issue. I don't see the harm in giving people--who care about each other and live together--the right to "get married." It doesn't have any effect on the sanctity of my marriage... And don't tell me it does, because it doesn't. My wife and I are the only ones who have influence on the sanctity of our marriage. Unfortunately, there are plenty of people and churches that preach otherwise, and they won't simply be silenced by Iowa's kind gesture this week. It's going to take a lot of patience and determination to win this civil rights battle.